9 SYMPTOMS OF EROSION OF LOVE

When you notice any of the following in your marriage know that erosion is gradually eating deep into your home.
9 things that can cause erosion in a marriage.

1. LONELINESS: If your spouse is with you but you are still feeling lonely, desolate and dejected check it. Something is already wrong with your marriage, even if you are not yet fighting.

2. LACK OF EXCITEMENT: You are no more excited about the home coming of your spouse, you are no more looking forward to seeing him/her and nothing excites you about him/her.

3. You dont miss her/him. Even if he travels for months, you dont feel the absence. Rather you are happy, "he/she that troubles Israel has travelled".

4. EMOTIONAL BLOCK: To have emotional block towards somebody is not to have any feeling for that person. His/her joy does not give you joy; the sadness does not affect you and you may even be happy to see the person in pains. that is the state men that beat their wives are. They are happy to see their wives  in tear and agony. If you notice this in your marriage, you better look for help immediately before it is too late.




5. CONSTANT MISUNDERSTANDING: If you discover you disagree often and virtually on everything, you should know that something si wrong because lovers do agree.

6. ABSENCE OF ROMANCE: In those days, you can hug, kiss, hold hands and enjoy each other's company. But now, hardly can you touch each other for long except for sexual intercourse.

7. CONSTANT BREAKDOWN OF COMMUNICATION: stalemate and malice. These are great signs of erosion and drifting. Lovers talk easily and agree quickly.

8. AVOIDANCE OF EACH OTHER: You try as much as possible to avoid each other and feel more at home when you at work and feel under pressure when you are at home.

9. SEX BECOMES TASKING: Sex is supposed to be pleasurable between couples. Both partners should look forward to it with nostalgia. They should enjoy giving their bodies to each freely lovingly and totally without any inhibit.