"Not like that."
Constructive criticism is important, but the bedroom is not the place for it. Instead of pointing out what you don't like, focus on what you do enjoy. Positive reinforcement can make a huge difference in performance and sexual confidence.
"My ex used to love it when I..."
Every person is different, so avoid comparing your current partner to past experiences. Discussing previous relationships can make your partner feel threatened and jealous, which is a major turn-off.
"I have to be out of here by 4:00."
Mentioning time constraints or being in a rush can kill the mood. If you need to discuss your schedule, wait until after the intimate moment.
"I wish you had more curves."
Women can be very self-conscious, especially when they're vulnerable. Pointing out physical attributes they lack can make them feel insecure and shut down emotionally.
"Did you finish?"
An orgasm does not define good or bad sex. Asking if she climaxed or expressing a desire to see her climax puts unnecessary pressure on her. Focus on enjoying the moment together without making orgasm the goal.
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