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Monday, 10 December 2012

28 Ways to Be Intimate with Your Wife

Written by Sean Platt, Post by Marital Solution CEO.

Intimacy can be defined in many ways. While physical touch is important, true intimacy means fostering a warm, friendly, and informal atmosphere that makes it easy to share mutual interests, habits, and affections. Intimacy with your spouse should be the breath of your relationship, leading to a deeper understanding of each other.

Nurture your intimacy, and you will have a union that is happier, healthier, and filled with surprises. Here are 30 ways to be intimate with your wife. Start today, and by this time next month, you'll be making the neighbors jealous.

1.   Have a Picnic: Whether at the park, beach, or living room floor, sharing a blanket full of food is a simple yet terrific way to enhance intimacy.

2.  Take Her to the Ballet: If she enjoys theater, two tickets for an evening at the ballet or opera will show how much you care.

3.  Book a Room at a Local Bed and Breakfast: Experience the benefits of time away without emptying your bank account.

4.  Send Flowers to Work: Women love getting flowers, especially at work. It will make her feel special and appreciated.

5.    Surprise Her: Leave work early and prepare a nice dinner. Schedule a babysitter if needed, but make the evening about the two of you.

6.    Prepare a Gift Basket: Fill it with bath salts, chocolates, bubble bath, and scented candles for a relaxing escape.

7.     Make a Romantic Memory Scavenger Hunt: Create a scavenger hunt built around your personal histories and cherished moments.

8.    Give Her Public Praise: Praise her in public, whether she's present or not, to build her self-esteem.
Make Her Breakfast in Bed: A classic gesture that never goes wrong.

9.     Do Your Chores (and Hers): Surprise her by completing a stray chore or lingering home project.
Maintain Eye Contact: Show your interest and affection by maintaining great eye contact.

10.   Talk About Your Goals: Discuss your collective future and set goals together.

11.    Give Her a Seven-Second Kiss: A lingering kiss can rekindle the romance.

12.   Be a Better Listener: Show that you care by being an attentive listener.

13.   Have a Mini-Honeymoon: Get away for a long weekend to spend significant time alone together.

14.    Have Manners: Be a gentleman and show courtesy.

15.   Let Her Rest: Take the initiative to let her rest and handle the kids.

16.  Put Her Goals First: Support her ambitions and personal growth.

17.  Write a Mission Statement: Share your expectations and goals for your marriage and family.

18.   Renew Your Wedding Vows: A meaningful gesture that strengthens your bond.

19.   Ask About Her Fears: Understand her insecurities and offer support.

20.   Alleviate Her Fears: Help her find a better outlook and reassure her of your commitment.

21.    Put Her First: Make her feel like the most important person in your life.

22.  Court Her: Continue to pursue her and keep the romance alive.

23.  Spend Quality Time Together: Schedule quality alone time and make it a priority.

24.   Write Love Letters: Express your feelings in writing.

25.   Show Intimacy Without Expectation: Show love without expecting anything in return.

26.    Make Her Feel Noticed: Compliment her and pay attention to her efforts.

27.    Recreate Your First Date: Relive the experience of your first date together.

28.    Take Dancing Lessons: Have fun and connect through dancing.

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